ugly girls will never get the love and affection hot/beautiful/cute girls get, even if they are ten time sweeter and lovegiving to the world than their...erm...'competitors'.
so if anyone comes up to a hot girl and says "i like you for reasons other than just your gorgeous body" then you can safely assume that the man has 'built' opinions 'on' the 'she is hot' foundation....
it's all superficial....people don't take bullets for the ugly...
be interesting, be funny, be intelligent...but first of all...be attractive.
too many men fall for the hot sweet girl's clutches...imagine the sweetest girl you know, with the ugliest body/face imaginable, it's ridonkulous! it would be very amusingly hopeless...the combination...
Blame us because we are who we are.
Hate us because you'll never get that far.
Here we are.
Foreign to their world.
Straight and composed.
Your sermons I can do without
And I finally found.
That everybody loves to love you
When you're far away.
if you make a list like 'people i would never cheat on'
you'll always cheat on #2 with #1 ;)
suppose a group of 5 or 6 people..are 'hanging out' or 'chilling' or something...then one person says 'sorry guys i have to go, I've got some work/my mom would be waiting'
you hang out with the same kind of people all the time, you tend to be like them, if they're nice, you tend to be nice, if they're always ethical, you tend to be ethical.
then you go hang out with a different group of people who are just...different...then the angle changes. drastically.
I've spent some time recently with people who think like me, who's opinions i respect for all their unsafeness, who i can say...are the most unreliable pieces of shits ever and i love them for it :) it's a nice thought...
now the people back home seem so tied down and controlled, and by that i mean....they look like they're constantly contemplating their next words so that they can say what is best according to 'the rest of the world'. they always wanna be on the safer side.
i hate these conversations that start with the intention of 'making conversation for the sake of it', these start with a sudden ugh....people find verbal communication so necessary, words just mess things up man!! just sit there...we don't always need to talk...you don't need to know how my day was, and frankly, it just makes me feel stupid looking for material in my head to answer your small talk questions...
i do things, i learn from them...i talk about them without withholding information...because i am not one of those who will tell you a modified version of the events in my life just so the image of me in your head remains clean and nice. everyone judges, so do i. if you don't like me for something i do. stop acting like you're worried. if im not worried, it doesn't matter to me. it's all fake. it always will be.
the only real cause for anyone's depression is other people, whether it's the lack of their presence or the actions they do. i say fuck people man!! isn't it easier, just, not depending? we let people mold us, become our weaknesses...scold us, judge us, and control us.there's too much of a social game going on at all times. where everyone wants to be noticed and liked by everyone...people base their lives on the pursuit of letting everyone know "im a really nice guy!!" about them...don't man. stop trying to please everyone. it's the most disgusting quality. barely tolerable. if you genuinely have something nice to say, say it.i usually don't have too many bad things to say about people, really, i believe in people not being completely hopeless a LOT, however pessimistic i may sound otherwise, this was pointed out to me by a friend (garima) and it's so bloody true!! if A says about B "B is such a bad dresser" I'll think of my own personal opinion of the person, and something positive like "no man, B has his own style, even though it sucks sometimes, at least he looks comfortable in it and not fidgety and too worried about his appearance all the time" would come to my mind. now i, am not trying to 'please' someone, im just being honest...if i hated B's dressing sense too (i don't HATE too many things, holding grudges is hard work) i'd just say "haha, yeah..." but i don't agree with too many people, some people have weird opinions that you can't contest/give your side about, but you can just stand there and respect the opinion in a "whatever makes you happy man" way....that's the best way...seriously.
"when people agree with me it makes me feel like i am wrong" - oscar wilde (just read it somewhere, don't remember how it goes exactly, could just be this)
today in class i was utterly utterly disgusted
simply by what they were trying to teach us.
basically, 'how do we determine what to choose between X, Y and Z?'
Ans: 'we choose the one which is most reliable, has the best reputation, is the most efficient'
bull-shit. if anyone was a manager and had to make a decision, everything would be coming from their gut feeling and supported by a few random statistics for reassurance, that's what happens everywhere...and always will happen. our sad shallow courses never teach anyone anything.
it's all about the money in the end, colleges advertise 'highest placements' and other such things. money has become everything anyone cares about. people don't mind doing soulless monotonous jobs for the sake of money. it has become all they care about. people work 'hard' to make more and more money...getting more possessions, it's take take take to give yourself the happiness you think you deserve after all the 'hard work' you've done in your shit job. won't you rather extract the happiness out of doing a job you like instead of getting it out of the money? people give up their dreams because their first priority is to get something to 'fall back' on...so they do sad courses in linear droning colleges and follow the 'steps to success' as laid down by the writer of some book....then they do just that, just let themselves 'fall back' because it's 'easier' than following your dreams...they say 'no, it's hard, it's a competitive world' ok so yeah it is, but was the 'world' of corporate bullshittery what you were aiming at in the first place? the world of music,art and sports is also 'competitive' and 'hard'. wasn't your dream something else? until it was replaced by the dream of a perfect CAT score? what we dreamed of when we were kids had nothing to do with learning all the horrible unnecessary things they make you learn for CAT, heck we didn't even know what CAT was, people say 'we matured' no sir...you let yourself go in the same direction as everyone else...you let yourselves be herded into institutes that teach you 'excellence' in a world full of cattle....
there are those who say 'i've always wanted to be an accountant'
just remember, you didn't know what accounts was when you were young...you have only been driven by the money, being happy in a shit job where you can easily do what you're best at and make oodles of money still makes me pity you...because i blame money for you and your kind who are 'happy' in their pools of money and doing activities that bring it to them, the happy accountant wouldn't touch anyone's books of accounts if he wasn't being paid for it....you are not, going to have it forever son. the money, doesn't go in your grave.
there are a lot of views coming into my head which i would write about but these views are those that i agree with 100% with a friend (kalhan) but always feel hesistant writing about becasue it feels like plagiarisation...i have to say, talking to him is like exploring myself. actually what's the big deal with plagiaristation? grrr....im not gonna care about it anymore, if any thoughts come to my head as a direct or indirect result ofa conversation with someone else, im gonna write it!! yeah!! screw you all!! im not gonna be ethical anymore you cunts!!
but sometimes while talkign to someone you agree so heartily it's hard to differentiate if the thoughts were yours or theirs....such is our beautiful 'relationship'.....hehe....
