I happened to 'store' that quote in a certain text file where I put interesting bits of text, it's attributed to one 'Ani DiFranco', no idea who she is,
Well, it's just my views on the topic now…
You might have seen girls/women/human females of all ages say one day something on the lines of
"oh my god I've been such a slut, I've been with so many different boys"
"oh people must think im a whore, with a different boy every year"
Something like that…so my question is, why do you care?
It's obviously very saddening to hear utterances like this, because why oh why would you want to refer to yourself by derogatory words used by the most prudish, most uninteresting people in your life? Why would you want to impress people with your boring life? And why is your boring life any more precious and worthwhile than even that of a stripper? Who on the other hand, is a person who does what she's good at to earn her living?
Im not saying this in a humorous way, this isn't a build up to an elaborate "oh girls, be promiscuous, cheat on your boyfriends with me" joke
Of course we've heard about the "there's no male word for 'slut' "conundrum, but why should there be even one for women?
At the end of it all, ladies, even your disapproving parents and aunts won't be with you, it'll be just you and your memories of all the experiences you've missed…
This isn't about 'not sticking to someone', if you find the person you think you want to spend the rest of your life with, go ahead, spend it. maybe that's your way of saying you've found love…and your life is complete. Nothing wrong with that…
Also, there's nothing wrong with falling in love many times, whatever your definition of 'love' may be.
But don't spend it stuck, and don't spend it dependent, any women getting married in this day and age, the year 2009, I consider you quite the failure if you're just living with your husband who earns for you and not doing anything with the education your parents probably got for you to stand on your own feet. You have no right to be so useless in this society where every man creates an identity in the form of what they 'do' for a living, I'd be horrified to have a woman in my life who when asked her occupation said 'housewife' or 'socialite', but that's just me...
Yes, your identity lays in 'what' you do and not in 'who' and 'how many' you do….
So if I had to choose between a 'sit at home, decent housewife, who's proud of the fact that im the only one she's ever been with' and a woman who is not an idiot, I'd choose the latter….
Because if promiscuity is nothing more than travelling, I'd rather travel. Yes I know, you might say "this is what every man wants to do anyway", well, it's usually not a 'man' thing, it's a 'human' thing….we all seek adventure…and in my journey, I'd like to meet other 'travelers', not someone who's scared of what people will think of them if they left their house….
Of course being in as few relationships as you can isn't a bad thing at all, if that's what makes you happy…do it, just don't do it for the wrong reasons.
1-bad grammar
2- people who use 'ya' e.g- noooo yaaaaa i can't come to that party yaaaa...ugh.
3-'lol' especially when it's trailed with multiple 'z's...or even one. If you say 'lolz' you're a retard.
4-alternative spelling- why use 'lyke' and 'tyme' when it's exactly the same number of letters? How is it helping anyone? Also 'short forms' look lame...worst ones being 'da', 'dat' and 'mah' in stead of 'the', 'that' and 'my' respectively...
5-over use of the suffix 'no' and 'na', what the hell does 'pick up that rock no' even fucking mean?
6-over use of 'caps'. It's rude and unruly TO TYPE LIKE THIS ALL THE TIME! not to mention it makes you a douchebag...
I think that's all for today...
'The final destination' series...all they're trying to tell you is, that bad maintainance and employee/workman/'whoever handles tools and machinery' incompetence can get you killed. So learn a lesson people, don't cut corners, even if you're a janitor...because who knows, you might happen to cause the gruesome death of some dumb blonde or jock wandering around... The new movie itself is a tribute to incompetence, especially that of the makers...this movie was mostly about stuff coming flying towards the screen, because it was supposed to be enjoyed best in '3D', which none of the pune theatres support. all you'd find yourself doing is pointing around saying 'shit that would have been a scary 3D moment'. Except that it's not. The deaths were kinda, funny, rather than scary...the acting, horrible...it was almost like a spoof of all the previous movies in the series, that's how many 'oh you've got to be fucking kidding me' moments make up this movie...
Here i am, sitting in my car right outside kickboxing class (which just got over)...once again wondering "what now?" should i go home and cook dinner? Should i eat out? Is there anything besides 'eating' that i could do today? Is it wrong for me to want the company of someone who i don't have to ask it for? This is probably something that would stop bothering me once i start the damn vehicle and start trudging my Way home...the saying should have been 'the held mind is the emo douche's workshop' , because hardly anything 'devilish' is done alone...
