2 posts tagged “happiness”
another oscar wilde quote....
that man, was a higher being...
i would even categorize a great friendship as a sort of romance...
why do you want to go through the whole process of getting to know a person so well that you start resenting them and wish you could get some air? e.g:- marriage, thankfully divorce is an option for people to exercise when they see the light...
you can 'grow old together' even without being married, seriously...
it always happens, the best thing to do is...have a good time...don't worry about the future...enjoy, the moment....the subtle, pleasant memories :) even things as simple as "When we used to sit around and do nothing" and "when i was just so happy to go for accounts classes so that i could meet you man" are, fun memories :) it doesn't always have to be super elaborate and full of noise and extra people...
good things always come in small packages....just, enjoy your package and dispose of the wrapper :)
every time we come across a situation where we're like "oh my god this is horrible this is like the end of the world!! how will i live!!" within a month or less, we've moved on...without even trying too hard....out of sight, out of mind...
of course it is kinda horrible to have to look at your unattainable muse everyday though...but guess what, just 'having' a muse is such a good memory :) maybe the memory won't last forever, but you'll remember the good things anyway till whenever you need to...
the future is never horrible, everything terrible comes to an end...it just keeps happening over and over again!! so it's pretty relieving, and amusing..
the only horrible things that are hard to get over are those that happen to the ones you care about...and it takes a lot of time to decide, who you care about actually...there are usually very few, but when they do get hurt, feel depressed...or are in pain...that's when it hurts the most...
all other pain and depression is a selfish one...which can be gotten over in time, or quicker if we set our minds ot it...but the external (happening to others) type? that's what you have to see them get over to be able to deal with yourself :)
title is self explanatory, you gotta stop, holding on so tightly :)
had a kind of religious experience recently....
most religions tell us to renounce worldly possessions, and, religion aside, that's what i agree with most anyway....so why are we all atheists when religion gives us a chance to practice all we truly believe in?
it's hard to explain....just, use religion to your benefit :)